Table ethics- hotel school session

                                        This a very interesting event. To participate this event, we went to the Sri Lanka Institute of hotel management and Tourism. There was a short lecture from the head of institute. Not only that, we could taste yummy foods also.

                                      In our day today life, we have to participate professional functions repeatedly. There is a question; do we know how to wearing in formal way? how get a meal formally?. In that day, we learnt lot of things related to these questions, without a doubt.

How wear for a function, professionally?
1) How we choose a shirt and a pair of trouser correctly? (Colors and other stuffs)
2) What kind of tie, belt and pair of shoes match for the dress?
3) For women, what kind of dresses, bags, jewelleries and make up suit for a function?
Table etiquettes

NAPKIN ETIQUETTE

At informal meals, place the napkin in your lap immediately upon seating. During formal occasions, before unfolding the napkin, wait for the hostess to remove her napkin from the table and unfold it in her lap.

Place the napkin in your lap upon seating.
When leaving the table temporarily, put the napkin on your chair.

At the meal's end, fold your napkin and place it to the left of your place setting.
At informal meals, place the napkin in your lap immediately upon seating. During formal occasions, before unfolding the napkin, wait for the hostess to remove her napkin from the table and unfold it in her lap.

Place the napkin in your lap upon seating.
When leaving the table temporarily, put the napkin on your chair.

At the meal's end, fold your napkin and place it to the left of your place setting.

HANDLING UTENSILS

How do you hold a fork?
The continental style prevails at all meals, formal and informal, because it is a natural, non-disruptive way to eat.

Table manners infograph showing how to hold a fork and knife using the Continental Style
Hold your fork in your left hand, tines downward.
Hold your knife in your right hand, an inch or two above the plate.
Extend your index finger along the top of the blade.
Use your fork to spear and lift food to your mouth.

At informal meals the dinner fork may be held tines upward, American table manners style.

THE TABLE SETTING

Table manners infograph showing what utensil to use first and which water glass and bread plate belong to you.
Deciding which knife, fork, or spoon to use is made easier by the outside-in rule – use utensils on the outside first and working your way inward. So, if you are served a salad first, use the fork set to the far left of your plate.

Your water glass is the one above the knife in your place setting and your bread plate is to the left. To remember which bread plate belongs to you and if the glass in front of you belongs to you or your neighbor, use “b” and “d”. Touch the index finger on your right hand to your right thumb. Touch the index finger on your left hand to your left thumb. The “b” formed by your left hand is for “bread” (your bread plate is always at the left of your place setting). The “d” formed by your right hand is for “drink” (your drinking glasses are always at the right of your place setting).

WHEN TO START EATING

At a small table of only two to four people, wait until everyone else has been served before starting to eat. At a formal or business meal, you should either wait until everyone is served to start or begin when the host asks you to.

RESTING UTENSILS

Table manners infograph illustrating how to rest utensils in the Continental style

How do you leave your knife and fork on your plate when taking a break or are finished eating?

When you pause to take a sip of your beverage or to speak with someone, rest your utensils in one of the two following styles:

Continental Style: Place your knife and fork on your plate near the center, slightly angled in an inverted V and with the tips of the knife and fork pointing toward each other.

American Style: Rest your knife on the top right of your plate (diagonally) with the fork nearby (tines up).

When each course is finished:

Place the knife and fork parallel with the handles in the four o'clock position on the right rim of the plate.

PASSING FOOD ETIQUETTE

Pass to the right (if the item is not being passed to a specific person). One diner either holds the dish as the next diner takes some food, or he hands it to the person, who then serves herself. Any heavy or awkward dishes are put on the table with each pass.

BREAD PASSING ETIQUETTE

If the loaf is not cut, cut a few pieces, offer them to the person to your left, and then pass the basket to your right.
Do not touch the loaf with your fingers, instead use the clothe in the bread basket as a buffer to steady the bread as you slice it.

Place the bread and butter on your butter plate - yours is on your left - then break off a bite sized piece of bread, put a little butter on it, and eat.

SALT AND PEPPER ETIQUETTE

Always pass the salt and pepper together.

SOUP ETIQUETTE

How do you eat soup?

Hold the soupspoon by resting the end of the handle on your middle finger, with your thumb on top. Dip the spoon sideways at the near edge of the bowl, then skim away from you. Sip from the side of the spoon. To retrieve the last spoonful of soup, slightly tip the bowl away from you.